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 Issue # 56

To Your Success

June 2009 


Our Mission:
To help people live happy, successful lives; to harness their natural power and live to their full potential.


"Above all be of single aim; have a legitimate and useful purpose, and devote yourself unreservedly to it." ----- James Allen


LASER POWER

When I was a young boy growing up in Winnipeg someone once gave me a magnifying glass. I remember being absolutely enthralled with it because of how it made everything look so much BIGGER!

Ants, crickets and grasshoppers became prehistoric monsters and earthworms became Anacondas. Whoa, how did that happen? Pull the glass away and they shrink down to regular size, put it back over them and they magically grow again. Incredible!

This held my attention for hours on end before one day I stumbled upon something that really blew my mind. It was a warm, sunny autumn afternoon and I was crouched down looking through my magnifying glass at a brilliantly colored Oak leaf that had just floated down in front of me. The sun was shining over my shoulder through the glass onto the leaf making it really bright and big and I could see all the veins so clearly. Then I touched the leaf and it was obvious that it felt unusually warm.

That caught my attention. So with boyish curiosity I repeated the process with another leaf and pretty soon it was warmer too. Interesting.

Eventually I noticed that by pulling the glass back just a little the sunlight became a circle, and as I pulled back more the circle became increasingly smaller. Pretty soon there was just a pinpoint of light that I watched with fascination until all of a sudden, HOLY, the leaf started smoking. Was I impressed or what!

Needless to say, within a short time there were many Oak leaves lying about with holes and interesting patterns burned right through them. What a fantastic day that was!

Okay, okay, this has been a pleasant journey down memory lane for me but by now you may be asking, "So what's your point?"

Well, my point is that this boyhood experience was actually a lesson in life success and achievement principles that I didn't understand at the time but would be exposed to over and over again during the ensuing years while playing organized sports, lowering my golf handicap, realizing success in my sales career, and building my business.

This point I'm referring to is that energy diffused can create some warmth, but generating enough heat to create real change requires focus.

In practical terms what this means is that if you want something, whether it be more success in your career or business, increased fitness, more money, a higher quality relationship, a nicer home, car or boat, or even better health, you must become focused upon it.

Why?

Because your thoughts, particularly in regards to their creative power and motivational ability, are much like those rays of sunshine I was playing with as a child. Wishing for something or thinking how 'nice it would be to have it' is a pleasant way to spend time but it seldom generates much in the way of results. It's like positioning the magnifying glass in such a way that it casts diffused sunlight upon the leaf ... it's entertaining and may generate a little warmth but that's about it. To make something significant happen, to get your leaf "smoking", you need to concentrate your thought power.

How? One way is to follow this simple 6 Step process.

Step 1: Become crystal clear on what you want; something surprisingly few people ever do. Be specific.

Step 2: Become clear on the 'Why' behind your wants; something even fewer people do. To do this, give serious thought to, and answer with self-honesty, the following questions in order:

· Why do I want it?
· What will it mean to me?
· How will it make me feel?

Allow yourself time with this step and write out your answers. Be aware that this may not be as easy as it appears because it causes you to go increasingly deeper into yourself, taking you right into the 'heart' of the matter.

Step 3: Once you're clear on what you want and the 'Why' behind it, write out what you want in present tense form as though you already have it. Use descriptive words that stir up emotion.

Step 4: Using your imagination, create a mental movie of you experiencing what it is you want. Allow yourself to not only see, but also hear, smell, taste and feel it.

Step 5: Read your written description and re-view your movie at least a couple of times each day, preferably first thing in the morning and last thing before you drift off to sleep. Let yourself 'experience' it again and again.

Step 6: As you walk through each day look for opportunities to take action consistent with achieving your desired objective. Then watch for signs, probably subtle ones initially, that what you want is coming.

Completing this little 6 Step exercise can be a powerful experience.There's no question that repeating steps 5 and 6 on a daily basis requires commitment and discipline, but do this religiously for a minimum of 30 consecutive days and see what happens ... your life will never be the same!

To your success,
Reg Neufeld

NOTE: for additional information relating to this subject please revisit 'To Your Success' issues #31, #38 and # 43, available in the Newsletter section of my Growing Into Success Training website at www.growingintosuccess.com.


"Focused mind power is one of the strongest forces on earth." ----- Mark Victor Hansen


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